8/13/25 - the fight, police, the calm after the storm

So I woke up again with a bit of anxiety because I kept replaying what I was going to say to the owner, especially after finding that he was at fault.

Instead of overexplaining or threatening, I landed on just telling him “Hey, btw I need a plumber’s report” for claims.

Mom and I packed out stuff, checked out from the hotel, and I wanted to stop to go to a cute coffee shop but the owner said he was coming at 9:15am, so just stopped for a quick cold brew which was mid. I just felt like I needed to do this even though I really didn’t want the cold brew because I wanted to continue with free will and romantizing and I didn’t want my anxiety to consume me. I wanted to stay in my femine enery.

Anyways, the owner came, I showed him all the damages and told him I needed a report and his eye literally started twitching and he started getting defensive and scared which is when I was like thank god I did my research because he was totally trying to get off the hook. He said instead of the report, he would help cover some of the damages, so I was like okay.

After he left, I made an excel and found the replacement price of everything and sent it to him. Along with pictures of things that were still damaged.

While I was watching TV with mom and eating. Mind you, I barely ate in the last 2 days. Even this felt like just food to fuel. He came back again to turn on the humidifier fans. And I told him I sent the excel. Immediately, he was like no because he didn’t expect the cost to be that much. He thought he could get rid of me for 1k. I told him, we needed to agree on a number or I wanted the plumbers report and he started getting super defensive, and said what do you mean you want a plumbers report, I’ve never even heard of it. What if they lie. What do you mean the credit card company does this. VERY DEFENSIVE. And I was trying to stay calm.

Literally it god to a point where he said no I’m not going to do the report, and I was like no. That’s not fair. He was like I. need you out by tomorrow and I was like no, I’m not leaving until the report.

Anyways, he left saying he was going to think about it and I went to my room to work. Literally my office chair was damaged too. I put a towel over it.

He calls me back and basically says he’s only paying one month of rent. I said I don’t accept it and I want the plumbers report and then we was like if you don’t agree, I’m going to send you notices and not pay you anything. Basically threatening me. Something in my mind told me to record this so I had the whole threat recorded. At this point, I was exhausted and shaking cause he was manipulating me, gaslighting me, and threatening me so I told him I’d call back later.

Scared af, I literally decided to go to the police and file a police report so I had proof because I didn’t know how he was going to turn this on me with notices. Even the police officer looked like he wasn’t taking my side but I didn’t care. I was literally shaking and was just so shook.

I did the report and came home and finally started feeling at peace, like my body good finally get out of fight or flight mode. Almost like god needed me to have this energy to fight, but now I was calming myself again. Still scared though.

His wife texted me and I still asked her and told her I wanted the report. She said the workers were coming in the morning, and then said the owner was bringing in a plumber. I said I wanted my own or we can call someone together and she still didn’t answer.

At this point, I decided I was done fighting him directly and was just going to file a claim. So mom and I started packing to be kicked out. We ended at like 11pm and this point, I was exhausted. We washed the bedsheets, so mom slept in my bed that night for the first time since we moved to the place.

Intuition - I need to fight this

4/10 - I really hoped this was going to come to me easy but I guess not and I was just so scared today.

Energy:
100% - scared and fighting